1. Choose a Thoughtful Card
- Select a card with a soft, comforting design. Check out these ones.
- If possible, avoid overly bright or celebratory themes.
2. Begin with a Gentle, Compassionate Greeting
- Example: Dear [Mom’s Name/Dad's Name],
- If you don’t know their name, you can start with Dear Mom/Dad, or Dear Loving Mother/Father,
3. Express Your Sympathy
- Acknowledge their loss with kindness and sincerity.
- Example: I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious son/daughter. My heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time.
4. Offer Comfort and Support
- You can mention that they are not alone and that people are holding them in their thoughts.
- Example: Please know that you are surrounded by love and support, even from those who have never met you. Your grief matters, and you are not alone.
5. Share a Thoughtful Message
- If you feel led, you can include a gentle quote or sentiment about love, memory, or healing.
- Example: A mother’s/father's love never fades, and the bond you share with your son is everlasting. May his love continue to shine in your heart forever.
6. Add Loving Touches
- Consider decorating the card with small, heartfelt details like:
- A hand-drawn heart, butterfly, or angel. (or stickers)
- Heart confetti.
- Flower or Bible verses stickers (if we mention that they are religious).
- A short poem or meaningful quote sticker.
- Stickers, soft colors, or gentle embellishments
- These small touches can bring warmth and show the love put into the card.
7. Avoid Unhelpful Phrases
- Refrain from saying things like “Everything happens for a reason” or “She/He’s in a better place.”
- Avoid comparing losses or trying to offer solutions to grief.
8. Close with Warmth and Care
- Sign off with a heartfelt closing, such as:
- With deepest sympathy and love,
- Holding you in my heart,
- Sending you comfort and peace,
- Sign your name or “A Friend Who Cares” if you prefer to stay anonymous.
9. Send with Love
- Place the card in an envelope and send it as directed by Love it Forward List.
- Don't forget to add the hashtag #loveitforwardlist to the envelope.
- Know that your kindness is making a difference in someone’s heart.
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Here are some Disney embellishment ideas for Allegra’s cards:
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- Disney cards
- Disney postcards
- Disney confetti
- Disney stickers
- Disney paperclips
- Disney pins
- Disney teabags
- Disney ribbons
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💜 Your words and love-filled touches have the power to bring comfort and light to a grieving parent. Thank you for sharing your kindness and compassion. 💜
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