How to Write a Love it Forward List Card for a Parent Who Lost a Child


 

1. Choose a Thoughtful Card

  • Select a card with a soft, comforting design. Check out these ones.
  • If possible, avoid overly bright or celebratory themes.

2. Begin with a Gentle, Compassionate Greeting

  • Example: Dear [Mom’s Name/Dad's Name],
  • If you don’t know their name, you can start with Dear Mom/Dad, or Dear Loving Mother/Father,

3. Express Your Sympathy

  • Acknowledge their loss with kindness and sincerity.
  • Example: I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious son/daughter. My heart goes out to you during this incredibly difficult time.

4. Offer Comfort and Support

  • You can mention that they are not alone and that people are holding them in their thoughts.
  • Example: Please know that you are surrounded by love and support, even from those who have never met you. Your grief matters, and you are not alone.

5. Share a Thoughtful Message

  • If you feel led, you can include a gentle quote or sentiment about love, memory, or healing.
  • Example: A mother’s/father's love never fades, and the bond you share with your son is everlasting. May his love continue to shine in your heart forever.

6. Add Loving Touches

7. Avoid Unhelpful Phrases

  • Refrain from saying things like “Everything happens for a reason” or “She/He’s in a better place.”
  • Avoid comparing losses or trying to offer solutions to grief.

8. Close with Warmth and Care

  • Sign off with a heartfelt closing, such as:
    • With deepest sympathy and love,
    • Holding you in my heart,
    • Sending you comfort and peace,
  • Sign your name or “A Friend Who Cares” if you prefer to stay anonymous.

9. Send with Love

  • Place the card in an envelope and send it as directed by Love it Forward List.
  • Don't forget to add the hashtag #loveitforwardlist to the envelope.
  • Know that your kindness is making a difference in someone’s heart.

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💜 Your words and love-filled touches have the power to bring comfort and light to a grieving parent. Thank you for sharing your kindness and compassion. 💜


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