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Losing someone we love is one of the hardest experiences in life. And when we want to reach out with a card, it’s natural to feel unsure of what to say. We worry about saying the wrong thing, or not enough. But the truth is—your love and presence on the page matters far more than finding “perfect words.”
Here are a few gentle tips for writing to someone who is grieving:
🌿 Keep it simple. You don’t need long messages—just a few heartfelt words can be deeply comforting.
🌿 Acknowledge the loss. You can write the person’s loved one’s name and let them know you’re thinking of them.
🌿 Offer comfort, not advice. Avoid trying to explain or fix the pain. Instead, focus on compassion and presence.
🌿 Share kindness. Let them know they are not alone and that their loved one is remembered.
🌿 Send love. A card is a hug through paper—it carries your heart.
✨ Examples of what you could write:
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“I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. May you feel surrounded by love and comfort.”
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“Keeping you close in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.”
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“Your loved one will always be remembered, and so will the love you shared.”
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“Sending you strength, peace, and love today and in the days ahead.”
Grief has no timetable, and our words won’t take it away. But with every card, we remind someone that they are not alone, that their pain is seen, and that love endures—even in the darkest times. 💌
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